Female Orgasm Secrets

Sexting Laws and the Digital Age

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Sun, 26 Feb 2012 00:26:00 +0000

I hate to post up stuff like this, but it's important that everyone is well informed about it. Sexting Laws and the Digital Age

Sexting: The Good, the Bad, and the Risky

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Sat, 21 Jan 2012 15:53:00 +0000

Check out my latest article on the act of sexting and the consequences of sexting for today's youth. You'll be surprised ay what you learn.
Sexting: The Good, the Bad, and the Risky

http://www.femaleorgasmsecrets.com/article13-sexting.html

Multiple orgasms

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Wed, 27 Jul 2011 20:02:00 +0000

Hi I'm a 45 yr old woman and since I separated from my husband of 20 plus yrs, every guy I have been with has made me do excited and really really wet I mean really to the point I've thought am I orgasming or is there something wrong with me maybe my bladder. However it wen I do have sex it's not as if my bladder feels any pressure.

Is this normal because I'm Getting really nervous about it because it's embarrassing?

I seriously get well excited but with my vibrator it's not that bad even though I still multi orgasm.
I still do my pelvic floor exercises. Please help me cos I'm so aware n I can't seem to control it.

Anonymous x

How to do a Striptease

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Thu, 10 Mar 2011 12:36:00 +0000

Even wanted to do a strip tease but didn't know quite how to go about it. It can be as basic as removing your clothes in front of your partner, but for the best results, use tricks from the professionals in this form of art. Here is a step-by-step guide and some useful tips on how to do a striptease, from the best of the best.
http://www.femaleorgasmsecrets.com/article12-how-to-do-a-striptease.html

How to Combat Vaginal Dryness

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Mon, 07 Feb 2011 17:20:00 +0000

Vaginal dryness can occur in females of any age, though postmenopausal women make up the greater number of sufferers. While the condition can be symptom-free, it frequently manifests in pain or discomfort during sex. Some women also experience itching or abnormal discharge in conjunction with this problem. See here for more.
How to Combat Vaginal Dryness

Anorgasmia: Inability to Achieve Orgasm

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Fri, 04 Feb 2011 20:24:00 +0000

See my new page called Anorgasmia: Inability to Achieve Orgasm. Deep, but it explains a lot.

Low Libido in Women

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Tue, 25 Jan 2011 13:27:00 +0000

Here's some useful information for women suffering from low libido. See the new page Low Libido in Women.

Common Causes of Pain during Intercourse

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Thu, 20 Jan 2011 14:42:00 +0000

Hey there, been a while, been so busy, but I got a bunch of new pages coming up. Here's one: Common Causes of Pain during Intercourse. Some pain is fun, but not this kind. OUCH!!

Female Sexual Dysfunctions

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Fri, 27 Aug 2010 14:42:00 +0000

Check out my new page Female Sexual Dysfunctions. We all know it affects millions of women.

History of the Female Orgasm

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Wed, 11 Aug 2010 15:16:00 +0000

Ever wonder where the female orgasm came from? This pleasurable act must have started somewhere. Was is the cave women of the dinosaur age? Read up about it here.

Some New Pages

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Wed, 07 Jul 2010 16:49:00 +0000

Hello all,
Here's a little update for your favorite Orgasm site! I have added some new pages.

First off Ten Orgasm Myths Debunked. Discusses erotic myths.

And a new page that I'm really excited about called Female Ejaculation: Out in the Open. Pretty self explanatory as to why I am excited about it.

My blog has moved

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Wed, 12 May 2010 11:04:00 +0000

Hi everyone,
in keeping up with Blogger's new system, my blog has moved.

The blog is now located at http://stories.femaleorgasmsecrets.com/.

For feed subscribers, please update your feed subscriptions to
http://stories.femaleorgasmsecrets.com/feeds/posts/default.

Thanks

My wife masturbating alone bothers me

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 18:35:00 +0000

We are both in our early 20's, she has never had an orgasm. I have encouraged her to touch herself and show me what she wants and she has. The problem is she wants to do it alone sometimes and for some reason this really bothers me I have no idea why!

O-less-in-Colorado

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 15:51:00 +0000

Hello,

Ok I am a 42 year old guy in Colorado. I am just out of a 20 year relationship, sexually that relationship was "normal". WE both had orgasms when we wanted to.

Ok the relationship ended and what do you know. there are other females that were interested...Lucky me!

She is 23... I know I told her that I felt a little weird about our age but she is ok with it so......

Ok here is my issue, she has never had and orgasm.......I have never been with a girl that did not cum. She does not like oral sex.....she said it is a waste of time. I have spent up to an hour or maybe longer to please my ex wife. She had been prescribed wellbutrin and that was marathon sex.....it took forever for her to orgasm.....But she would....

I have ready all this stuff on the web about this and they all say it mental...Is it? I know the spots....G spot, Clit I could make my ex wife orgasm in tee minus 5 minus max......

So is the dream right? a younger girlfriend.....I am not used to a no orgasm sex life? I mean I can do my thing, but I am not a selfish jerk I want her to orgasm if we have sex

I have not had sex with this girl yet. I want to. What do you think will help. Slow patient play?

I am open to any and all recommendations.

O-less-in-Colorado

Ways Women Orgasm

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 14:48:00 +0000

Dear Candis,

It may help women, who are comparing sex with masturbation, to appreciate that PHYSICAL stimulation (of the genitals) only leads to orgasm once a person has achieved PSYCHOLOGICAL arousal.

During masturbation, men use EROTIC IMAGES (sexual attributes of a partner) but women use EROTIC SCENARIOS (fantasies with a complex psychological context).

This explains why women do not buy pornography as men do. A partner’s nakedness and genitals do not cause female sexual arousal.

So women are likely to find orgasm during sex more elusive than men tend to, unless they can find some way of incorporating their fantasies into their sexual relationship.

Kind regards,

Jane Thomas

Founder: Ways Women Orgasm

How to Fake an Orgasm

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 15:15:00 +0000

Want to learn How to Fake an Orgasm? Check it out. It's easier than you think.

Top 10 Reasons Women Fake Orgasms

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 14:11:00 +0000

Top 10 Reasons Women Fake Orgasms

Women fake orgasms? I hate to break it to you but yes, women do indeed fake orgasms, and have been doing so for quite some time now! But the more important question is: why do they fake orgasms? Read up on it on my new article: http://www.femaleorgasmsecrets.com/article8-top-10-reasons-women-fake-orgasms.html

I'm on Twitter

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 18:47:00 +0000

I'm officially on Twitter! YEAAAAA!
Check it out at http://twitter.com/orgasmsecrets and follow me.

Female Orgasm Store is Now Open

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 13:38:00 +0000

Hello all,
We have opened a store! An online store that is. It's loaded with all kinds of sexually stimulating products including games, creams, and (of course) vibrators. Check it out. Tell me what you think. Any comments would be greatly appreciated. It is safe, secure, and your privacy is respected. Click here or go to http://www.femaleorgasmsecrets.com/shop/.

Unsatisfied husband

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 14:41:00 +0000

My husband wanted me to learn or to research how to masturbate. I am a filipina and it is against my moral and beliefs that I do that kind of thing. I dont get orgasm when he play with me on my private part...it hurts and his hands feels like a sand paper (he is a mechanic and had a calous hand and fingers) when he touch me, so when I complain that it hurts he got offended. He keeps on complaining and said his sexual life sucks. He is also obsessed with using his fingers to my V_ _ _ _ _ but he doesnt cut his fingernails.I do love him but I dont know what to do and I dont like his ideas because I know I would not like or feel any sensation on it. I need some advice. Thanks

Human Pheromones

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Fri, 18 Sep 2009 14:22:00 +0000

Check out my new page on human pheromones. Do they really attract the opposite sex?
http://femaleorgasmsecrets.com/human-pheromone.html

Top 10 Women's Fantasies

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 14:37:00 +0000

When it comes to sexual fantasies, many of them are geared towards men. However, women are sexual beings too, and they have plenty of scenarios and situations that turn them on. Some may think the top 10 women’s fantasies include roses and chocolate, but take note that things are not always as they appear.

See my article Top 10 Women's Fantasies. Feel free to add your own sexual fantasies.

Not sure about orgasms

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Wed, 27 May 2009 17:04:00 +0000

I was once told that if I didn't know what an orgasm felt like, I had never had one. I've had a few encounters where it wasn't' about me it was about them.... well atleast after the "first time" feeling wore off.

The lover I am with now is much older than me and seems to really want me to orgasm, but I'm not sure I've had one because the way they are described to on this site, it sounds like I've never had one but I love penetration, I love the way my lover feels very much. He makes me feel safe and loved so I feel relaxed around him and like we fit completely but I feel bad because I haven't really had an orgasm 'cause I'm not sure that what I felt is one anyway.... he asks me to cum, but I've never had an extra burst of fluid, I just get really excited for a few moments, I scream typically and hold onto him really tight and feel very wet all over again but that's about it.

He loves going down on me, but sometimes I am self conscious although he says I taste good, maybe I'm not relaxed enough I know what I like in this context but don't think I can ask him. I think I feel like I'm asking too much.

I love pleasing him, so I usually go down on him randomly without him asking me and I love the way he reacts to me because I'd rather please him than me since I feel like it would take forever for me.

Also, is there a way to make doggie style feel more intimate? I like to be able to feel that my lover is there, otherwise I feel like a literal dog and not as special (I was hurt hat way I guess that's why... i don't really know) any ideas, 'cause that's what my lover likes and I like pleasing him really...

man from London

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 20:04:00 +0000

Hi,

I am a man from London, England, and have just discovered your site; like it and I will be showing it to my partner as there is a thing or two SHE could learn from it, as it is not only us poor dumb guys who apparently know nothing!

Having read what you have to say, it all makes perfect sense to me and I am in no doubt whatsoever that, with very few clinical exceptions, ALL women are capable of orgasms and ALL women are capable of multiple orgasms.

How do I know this? Well, as you can imagine, it is quite difficult to say what I am about to say without sounding like I am bragging, but I’ll give it my best shot. Firstly from years of experience and secondly because I am absolutely sure that of all the women I have made love to over 30 years, not one of them has faked orgasm and all of them have had orgasms; some have orgasmed for the first time and some who have experienced multiple orgasms for the first time. There will of course be those of you who don’t believe this, so save your breath.

How has this been achieved you ask? Simple, make love to your partner, don’t just fuck her, although that is OK too if that is what she wants too. Put her at the centre of your world and simply try your best to please her by doing what she wants and likes, as well as what you think she wants. As your site points out, us guys, sadly, get just one shot at this before we are spent, so take your time and nourish your love-making with kissing, foreplay, caresses, hot baths, candles, silk sheets, toys, porn – whatever floats your respective boats, but never ever forget your trump card guys; use your tongue and lips and simply show your woman you really care by giving her oral sex. I have never yet met a woman who doesn’t love it (those that don’t clearly have issues which they need to address) and who doesn’t achieve an orgasm. Bingo, pass go, collect £200, bulls-eye, you have just won the lottery and you are God in her eyes and then can do whatever you want after that; you can even come in 5 seconds if you wish, because there will be no complaints and if you penetrate just after, or even as she is coming, then chances are high she may well orgasm again when you do. It doesn’t get much better than that. One woman I met on a flight back from Barbados asked me (it was a bizarre flight which I might tell you about some time) “Is the hole the goal for you guys”? Honestly! I said of course not, but I know that for many men that is the goal. Wrong, go to jail you are bankrupt.

If all you think about is yourself, then not much can be achieved. But this goes for you women too, when it’s your turn don’t be mean, show him you care and give him oral sex too and whatever else he likes. It takes two to tango and it is this mutuality that is the key: you can’t make love alone, you can only masturbate, so bear in mind – and again this goes for all you lovely women too – there are two of you. Also ladies, do unto others as you would have done unto yourself, it is not just us guys that need to learn a few things here; you cannot expect him to go down on you if you are not prepared to reciprocate. When I make love, my sole ambition is for her to have pleasure and hopefully achieve orgasm. It has never failed me yet and, whilst it might just be that I have been incredibly lucky, which I am sure is also true, I think it is quite simply that I care.

This approach has proved successful and highly rewarding because, as I said at the outset, all the women I have bedded have had orgasms, you can’t fake these despite myths propagated by When Sally met Harry; and some of those either for the first time or who have achieved multiple orgasms for the first time. And that, my friends makes me feel great! Fantastic in fact, as well as just a little bit smug. Because knowing that these women loved me and will remember me, not for banging away at them, but because they were loved and pleasured and had experiences they had perhaps not had with previous partners is a huge turn on; at least for me. It wasn’t about the size of my penis, although no complaints there, and let’s face it, at the end of the day, orgasms are not everything, but they are a damn fine miracle of life and we should promote it and enjoy it as often as possible. It is even free and there ain’t much left in this world that is.

Another delightful trick guys is to stimulate her G-spot whilst giving her oral sex. As this site explains, it is only 2 inches or so inside the vagina, which is easily reached by your finger - or a toy. When she is fully aroused by oral sex, her G-spot will be primed, and when you sense orgasm is approaching, gently insert your finger(s) slowly as you continue giving her oral sex and you will feel a rather curious ‘grainy’ part; if you apply rhythmic pressure to this then when she comes, trust me hold on to your codpiece guys, because she will rip your head off! Honest to God it makes me feel bloody marvelous when this happens and I am so horny that, when she comes down from Planet Orgasm, I am primed and ready to deglaze her pans. I recall I did this with a wonderful woman from Chicago and she passed out; literally. We were staying in a rather fancy country hotel in Oxfordshire and she literally went out cold and I was all primed and ready to go and didn’t know what had happened or what to do! Did I call reception, throw cold water over her (and me!) pack my bags and leave quickly in case she had in fact died? A few minutes later she came round and gave me a smoldering look I shall never forget, although I think I was quite white and shaken by then. I asked her if she was OK and she gave me the kind of look that sort of said, “are you kidding - I am in heaven what’s the matter with you”? So she orally pleasured me, spread her legs and we finished off the matter in hand. Great hotel, great woman, great orgasm and a great memory. The icing on the cake to this story is that I followed her to Chicago some time later and stayed with some of her female friends; she was married you see. They had clearly heard all about this and made no bones in making it clear to me they wanted to have sex with me too. Rather difficult situation, but am a little embarrassed to say that I did have sex with two of her friends; I think you know the conclusion to both these encounters. It works.

Anyways guys (and girls) hope this helped and give it a try and let me know, and there are many more stories where this came from, including some about my current partner who is 30 years younger than me and quite content; the trouble is she is so impatient, she wants to come far too quickly. I try to lengthen foreplay but she just wants to get right to the end of the film as quickly as possible. I am built for comfort not for speed….

Have fun

Ps this is a genuine letter but if it makes you feel better to think it is fantasy, then please be my guest.

ORAL SEX

noreply@blogger.com (Candis Hale) — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 16:17:00 +0000

I am Es, i just want to share my experience with my husband. He keeps asking me to suck his penis and i bluntly refused as i feel that it is not healthy. But i noticed that he is no longer happy with me on bed.

I think i will like you to teach more about oral sex. How healthy is it? And should we allow them to suck our vagina as well?